A Lesson Learnt
Tia sat at her desk with her coffee mug in hand. Her
spectacles perched on her nose, her hair in a messy bun, the tank top she was
wearing and her favourite steaming Nescafe gave her all the comfort she needed
after a long day at work. She always used to start reading or browsing the net
after a shower but today her work wasn’t over for the day. She had an extra
work of marking a hundred and twenty papers not to mention the tallying all to
be finished within five days. Yes, this is the interesting life of a teacher.
She wouldn’t say that she loved teaching but when she
was with her kids she loved every moment. For however strict Tia might be at
times, they still came smiling towards her after she makes a joke to smooth the
atmosphere. Moreover there were kids to whom she hasn’t even taught but
wherever they see her, they give her that toothy grin that says, “There’s that
teacher I always see.” All these satisfaction and honor along with the pride
that comes when her children score made her give her best for the most patience
demanding job. For that thing, PATIENCE was one thing that she never had. So
there she was at ten p.m., in a darkroom, lit only by her desk lamp to let her
see the papers her grade four children had scribbled for her.
Yes, that’s the word, mark it, “scribbled”. No matter
how many times she had cut the work and made some children re-write, they still
wrote in the wobbly figures they had invented for English. “Not the time to be
cranky Tia, get started”, she says to herself and marks. As always she takes
the smartest child’s paper to mark at first so that she would have a picture of
all the correct answers. And to her surprise that kid had got complete marks in
both the grammar and language part. She was astonished. For however smart a
child be, a child is a child and therefore makes at least one silly mistake.
She didn’t know whether to be proud that she had done her job well or to be
happy that this kid was a born genius. So she moved on. Marking papers takes
time and one tip you should always have in mind is, “Keep the soreness of the
day at bay or confront the parent in a warfront.”
That’s true some parents never understand that
mistakes make their child learn. The worst of all was that they even think that
teachers hold a personal grudge to have put a wrong for something correct in
their child’s paper. “God won’t you slap some sense into these people’s thick
heads”, is what her staff body pray. But that doesn’t mean that they do not
understand the parent’s interest or care but sometimes the melodramas just get
too much to bear.
Tia kept on correcting and felt proud that she really
might have done some good work with her kids. For most of them, even the ones
she didn’t expect much had given their best and she was all awake not because
of the action of the caffeine but of the enthusiasm her children had brought
into her. Some children had funny way of answering and that showed their
innocence and sweetness. Then her pen hovered over the sentence, “I love my
best friend very much.” Best friend. That was one thing that she luckily or
unluckily never got. Suddenly her world shifted into a place where she was in
grade four in her school.
She had not been a really smart one at those times but
she wasn’t of the lame ones too. The only subjects she loved were science and
English. She remembered that she never had anyone close till that grade but she
hanged out with everyone instead of being pestered by one. That was when Shana
came into the picture. Their friendship started with their fight over the seat
arrangement and as always Tia had taken the place with the help of the teacher.
In grade five they bonded better and in grade six when classes were switched,
Shana and Tia were left for one another and they took each other as BESTIES.
Tia kept on marking though the memories were flooding
her and when she saw how one child chose one for a best friend but that best
friend chose another. She couldn’t help but wonder what that child would feel
if he gets to know that the person he considers as a best friend considers
another. Tia started laughing when she felt that this seemed like a clichéd
teenage episode where the boyfriend is not sure if his girlfriend really
considers him as the love of her life and vice versa. But that didn’t stop her
from remembering her past.
It was in their seventh grade when the class was split
again Maya joined the besties in sharing the desk and chair. At first they were
both hostile towards the intruder but with time everything settled. Tia always
had a feeling of whom Shana would choose when she wrote, a letter for a friend,
in the exam paper. Would it be “Dear Tia” or “Dear Maya” always bugged her. But
the most hilarious part, now observing after so many years was their
conversation after they exit the exam hall. “Um, Shana that letter we got, how
did you frame it?” Tia would ask not giving away that she was testing her
bestie’s loyalty. And Shana too would play along though now Tia doubted that
her bestie would have understood that she was investigating. Sometimes it used
to be Shana who would directly ask, “Who did you choose when writing the
letter?” and then there would be that, “DO YOU SERIOUSLY DOUBT ME?” episodes.
Then again with the passage of time and in the second
semester Tia got her first heart attack when Shana said that she wrote for
Maya. Tia being a child then (unlike the big headed kids nowadays) was broken
and she still remembered how she cried into her pillow and swore that she would
never ever depend on Shana. Tia wasn’t a crybaby. So she dealt her worries
within herself. The fact that her parents kept switching between the places
where half of her sibling her settled never helped. For at the end of the day
she still had no one to go to with her worries and so she learnt to stand on
her own for her vulnerable sides.
Though she swore, it wasn’t easy for Tia to slack down
from a friendship built on three years understanding. But that was only till
Shana and Maya became besties excluding Tia from the circle of trio. The games
that they pulled to hurt her, still hurt her. For they used the strong face she
put, when they kept saying profanities about her, to hurt her more. She
remembered that she bore everything well and when she got her time she did take
make Shana taste the bitter fruit that she fed Tia. But unlike Tia, Shana took
the case to the teacher with the help of some of Tia’s foes. Tia smiled at the
memory of that scene now. “Miss, Tia keeps insulting Shana and she won’t let
Maya associate with Shana. Please tell her that it’s wrong”, said the judge of
the injustice who now is a mother of a child. So that led to the trio being separated
for a week. For the great teacher believed that would teach them the lesson of
THE IMPORTANCE OF FRIENDSHIP.
Tia smiled now thinking of it. For that is the same
strategy that she now uses to make her children concentrate though not to make
them understand the importance of frienship. Maybe it did work for her and her
friends. For after that incident a lot of things changed about them. They all
got new friends around in the class, had good class corporation and even had
pleasant conversations at times. Yet they never became what they were. Sure Tia
now has their number saved, still chats in whatsapp, knows that Maya is a happy
mother of a lovely girl and that Shana’s stuck in the middle of a proposal but
the magic that they found in their innocent age was lost right there buried
right down in the fourth class room on the second floor of their school
building.
Tia stopped marking half way through a paper and saw
that the clock had stricken twelve. She had marked around twenty five papers and
had no stamina for more. So she left the table to the comfort of her bed that
wrapped her in its warm arms. Still she couldn’t switch off her mind from the
thought, “Things done could be forgiven but never forgotten if it comes with
the baggage of pain, hurt and heart break. Sure that combo makes you strong
after a bitter lesson but at the same time it also has the power to wreck you
if you are not strong enough to handle the bitterness.” Tia had silently
thanked her parents many times in her life for leaving her to fight her own
battle when she was young. She knew that they had no other choice and accepted
it. For that made her strong enough to handle situations unlike some crybabies
that irked her. So once again after silently thanking her parents, Tia made
prayer for their prolonged life and added that god forbids the heartache that
any of her children might get when they get to know that besties are not for
everyone. She just wished that one day that child, would come to comprehend
that they are better off on their own legs with some people they trust rather
than leaning on the strength of brick besties as pillars in life.
Author:- Badurdeen.Fathima.Ayesha