The suffocating society
We all live in this super cool society where
everybody loves everybody! Can you imagine? Love is literally in the air. You
ask me how? See, when everything that you do concerns a person, when they are
twenty four seven conscious about your actions, when they would never let a
single information about you go unknown! We call it love. Don’t we?
It feels great to know that someone out there cares for us
but right now the situation has got to a new level where this caring got
intense and the gossip got intriguing. You know what the worst part is? The
gossiping tongues are now the abusing ones too! I mean like, seriously? What
sort of perfection are you to point that crooked finger of yours at another?
Another interesting fact about this issue is that, these
gossipers are not only old people like the legends speak! They are the current
generation. It’s fine to talk about competition. For that sprouts creativity,
generates idea and brings forth motivation. On the other hand if the talk is to
ridicule someone, to bring down a person’s reputation, to hurt someone, to get
your revenge back, then know that you are stepping low from the humanitarian
step that you are standing right now.
The real sad thing in the world right now is that the people
who are being abused of things that are of no concern tend to change themselves
to fit in into the stupid stereotypes that the society has built. I’d like to
say something to all those people with great talent out there, guys, every
single creation of the Almighty is unique! It is special in some sort of way
and someone would definitely need you. Don’t think that these flourishing
insults that this grand society pours on you are all golden words that need to
be treasured. In fact they are the jealousy of some people who saw that special
light in you and their action to extinguish the sparks before the fire starts.
All you got to do is turn a deaf ear to the insults, wear a smile to show that
you can put up with shit very well and keep sharpening your talent.
Sometimes when the insult is about the physical features, no
matter what the gender is, a small insecurity does creep inside us. For, every
one of us give a lot of attention to our looks, attire, fragrance and especially
our shoes! So, after looking into every single detail of our self we would
surely want a positive remark or comment about it. Nobody out there likes to be
called “Hey fatty”, “Yo Teddy”, “My dearest elephant” nor do they like to be
called a “stick”, “pole” and all other trash. Sometimes I feel like saying, ”Okay
dude, I know that you do have two bright shiny eyes to see but should that
mouth of yours turn foul when your eyes are so hot that it notices every single
detail about another person?” to the abusers face. Yet, once again being a part
of this GENTEEL society means that you are restricted from reprimanding while
you will always be!
We need to understand that some people have this virtuous body
where nobody knows where all those tons of carbs they ate went! While others
have another sort of virus infested system for a body, where once again nobody
knows how on earth all those extra pounds came from, when all they consumed were
GREEN vegetables, GREEN fruits and GREEN tea! Anyways, BMI never betrays if we
choose to eat healthy, do some exercise frequently and stay fit.
So the point I was going to make was that, no matter what we
do some of us have a body that just needs some real hard working to be
maintained. So the society that loves us so so much just has no right to talk
about our weight but to wait and see the height of the achievement we made with
our wagging or lacking weight!
Especially during weddings, our people deck themselves from
top to bottom, sit in the last row of the hall and start their analysis. You
ask me what for? To find their rank amongst the guest and give a first ranking
report of why the bride should not have chosen this, why the groom mustn’t have
done that, why some specific guest should never have been invited, why the
decorations needed alteration, and the list never ends!
It gets really annoying when one wedding is compared to
another. Everybody wants their wedding to a memorable one not the best pompous
one! So it’s not like you can see all brides equally decked nor all grooms
royally spruced. Sayings like, “Oh, X was much more fair and lovelier than Y”,
“The suit of B was way better than this C”, “The throne of Z was lavish
compared to A”, etc... isn’t what the party that invited you expects from you!
They only wanted to introduced the new couple in their family and get them your
blessings!
People never realize how much they hurt other people because
of their blunt words. Some people get shattered when they hear that their hard
work being ridiculed (worse being compared and ridiculed). We were all sent out
by the Almighty on a mission. If we want to achieve it, then we ought to accept
people for what they are(what god made them) instead of expecting them to fit
into something they were not created to be. People are of immense
personalities, some are calm and collected, some are bubbly, some rushing,
other always prepared, certain are angry birds, a few bossy, many are mandatory
while some aren’t yet we must accept that they are all important to make the
world complete. For if accepting things
and living with peace and harmony isn’t easy in this world then answering of
the questions on the hereafter is not going to be easy as well.
So, if we all target in accepting people for their own selves
I hope that the suffocation in the air would reduce along with the discomfort
around some people, dislike for a certain party, etc…
So let us all focus on being ourselves and accepting people
for themselves!
P.S. I had always wanted to talk about how suffocating
society can get at times and that we the future generation should change it. So
this is one simple act I took. If my words do sound right and if I happen to
make a change somehow, then I have achieved my goal.
