The Suffocating Society

The suffocating society

We all live in this super cool society where everybody loves everybody! Can you imagine? Love is literally in the air. You ask me how? See, when everything that you do concerns a person, when they are twenty four seven conscious about your actions, when they would never let a single information about you go unknown! We call it love. Don’t we?

It feels great to know that someone out there cares for us but right now the situation has got to a new level where this caring got intense and the gossip got intriguing. You know what the worst part is? The gossiping tongues are now the abusing ones too! I mean like, seriously? What sort of perfection are you to point that crooked finger of yours at another?

Another interesting fact about this issue is that, these gossipers are not only old people like the legends speak! They are the current generation. It’s fine to talk about competition. For that sprouts creativity, generates idea and brings forth motivation. On the other hand if the talk is to ridicule someone, to bring down a person’s reputation, to hurt someone, to get your revenge back, then know that you are stepping low from the humanitarian step that you are standing right now.

The real sad thing in the world right now is that the people who are being abused of things that are of no concern tend to change themselves to fit in into the stupid stereotypes that the society has built. I’d like to say something to all those people with great talent out there, guys, every single creation of the Almighty is unique! It is special in some sort of way and someone would definitely need you. Don’t think that these flourishing insults that this grand society pours on you are all golden words that need to be treasured. In fact they are the jealousy of some people who saw that special light in you and their action to extinguish the sparks before the fire starts. All you got to do is turn a deaf ear to the insults, wear a smile to show that you can put up with shit very well and keep sharpening your talent.

Sometimes when the insult is about the physical features, no matter what the gender is, a small insecurity does creep inside us. For, every one of us give a lot of attention to our looks, attire, fragrance and especially our shoes! So, after looking into every single detail of our self we would surely want a positive remark or comment about it. Nobody out there likes to be called “Hey fatty”, “Yo Teddy”, “My dearest elephant” nor do they like to be called a “stick”, “pole” and all other trash. Sometimes I feel like saying, ”Okay dude, I know that you do have two bright shiny eyes to see but should that mouth of yours turn foul when your eyes are so hot that it notices every single detail about another person?” to the abusers face. Yet, once again being a part of this GENTEEL society means that you are restricted from reprimanding while you will always be!

We need to understand that some people have this virtuous body where nobody knows where all those tons of carbs they ate went! While others have another sort of virus infested system for a body, where once again nobody knows how on earth all those extra pounds came from, when all they consumed were GREEN vegetables, GREEN fruits and GREEN tea! Anyways, BMI never betrays if we choose to eat healthy, do some exercise frequently and stay fit.

So the point I was going to make was that, no matter what we do some of us have a body that just needs some real hard working to be maintained. So the society that loves us so so much just has no right to talk about our weight but to wait and see the height of the achievement we made with our wagging or lacking weight!

Especially during weddings, our people deck themselves from top to bottom, sit in the last row of the hall and start their analysis. You ask me what for? To find their rank amongst the guest and give a first ranking report of why the bride should not have chosen this, why the groom mustn’t have done that, why some specific guest should never have been invited, why the decorations needed alteration, and the list never ends!

It gets really annoying when one wedding is compared to another. Everybody wants their wedding to a memorable one not the best pompous one! So it’s not like you can see all brides equally decked nor all grooms royally spruced. Sayings like, “Oh, X was much more fair and lovelier than Y”, “The suit of B was way better than this C”, “The throne of Z was lavish compared to A”, etc... isn’t what the party that invited you expects from you! They only wanted to introduced the new couple in their family and get them your blessings!

People never realize how much they hurt other people because of their blunt words. Some people get shattered when they hear that their hard work being ridiculed (worse being compared and ridiculed). We were all sent out by the Almighty on a mission. If we want to achieve it, then we ought to accept people for what they are(what god made them) instead of expecting them to fit into something they were not created to be. People are of immense personalities, some are calm and collected, some are bubbly, some rushing, other always prepared, certain are angry birds, a few bossy, many are mandatory while some aren’t yet we must accept that they are all important to make the world complete.  For if accepting things and living with peace and harmony isn’t easy in this world then answering of the questions on the hereafter is not going to be easy as well.

So, if we all target in accepting people for their own selves I hope that the suffocation in the air would reduce along with the discomfort around some people, dislike for a certain party, etc…

So let us all focus on being ourselves and accepting people for themselves!

P.S. I had always wanted to talk about how suffocating society can get at times and that we the future generation should change it. So this is one simple act I took. If my words do sound right and if I happen to make a change somehow, then I have achieved my goal.